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get one's own way (adjective)

English translation: self-centered


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English term or phrase:egocentric
English translation:self-centered
Entered by: Fuad Yahya
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07:04 Feb 19, 2004
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Social Sciences - Psychology
English term or phrase: get one's own way (adjective)
I am looking for a one-word adjective that describes someone who always wants to get his or her own way and so whatever he or she likes... just like a spoilt br*t.
Denyce Seow
Singapore
Local time: 08:02
self-serving, self-centered
Explanation:
in addition to Alex' suggestions. I don't believe that autocratic fits here unless it describes some of our other bad traits.
Selected response from:

Alaa Zeineldine
Egypt
Local time: 02:02
Grading comment
I'm very impressed with the suggestions and gosh, we have over 60 inputs here. I guess everyone is right in their own way but "self-centered" fits best into my context.

Thanks a zillion, folks!!
p.s. Sorry if I have not provided enough context.
4 KudoZ points were awarded for this answer



Summary of answers provided
5 +6bullheaded, headstrongFuad Yahya
5 +5EgoistxxxAlex Zelkind
4 +6selfishRHELLER
4 +5self-serving, self-centered
Alaa Zeineldine
3 +4demanding, self-centredchica nueva
5 +2willful
Gerard Michael Burns
4 +3inconsiderate
Armorel Young
4 +2stubbornPaul Weideman
2 +3hard-headed
Jonathan MacKerron
4 +1self-opinionated
Textklick


Discussion entries: 4





  

Answers


3 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 5/5 peer agreement (net): +5
Egoist


Explanation:
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Selfish is the adjective

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Egotistical - another way to say it
\"Egoistic\" is another adjective widely used


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Voluntaristic - is that the adjective you are looking for?

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I think that \"voluntaristic\" is the one you are looking for to go with \"autocratic\". \"Autoristic and voluntaristic\" go hand in hand. In Russia term \"voluntaristic\" was applied to describe Khrushev\' rule.
Voluntarism.

xxxAlex Zelkind
Native speaker of: Native in RussianRussian

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  Alaa Zeineldine: also adj. egoistic or egotistic
5 mins
  -> Yes, I've just added them. Thank you

neutral  mportal: egoistic , yes, but voluntaristic or autoristic are not words we use in English
1 hr
  -> "Autoristic" is typo for "autocratic". "Voluntaristic" is widely known word. Who are "we"?

neutral  EKM: "voluntaristic" is fine for academic essays, but not for texts addressing the general public. It is a philosophical term and cannot be expected to be widely understood by people w/o scholarly experience.
2 hrs

agree  TonyTK: egoistic/egocentric
4 hrs

agree  Jörgen Slet
5 hrs

agree  jebeen
17 hrs

agree  langclinic
18 hrs
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13 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5 peer agreement (net): +5
self-serving, self-centered


Explanation:
in addition to Alex' suggestions. I don't believe that autocratic fits here unless it describes some of our other bad traits.

Alaa Zeineldine
Egypt
Local time: 02:02
Native speaker of: Native in ArabicArabic, Native in EnglishEnglish
PRO pts in category: 4
Grading comment
I'm very impressed with the suggestions and gosh, we have over 60 inputs here. I guess everyone is right in their own way but "self-centered" fits best into my context.

Thanks a zillion, folks!!
p.s. Sorry if I have not provided enough context.

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  xxxsarahl: with self-centered, as opposed to God-centered
34 mins
  -> and selfless, unselfish

agree  ben baudoin
2 hrs

agree  TonyTK: (Yes. Let's leave G*d out of this)
3 hrs
  -> It is not up to us.

neutral  Jörgen Slet: Re: autocrat: a person who behaves in an authoritarian or domineering manner (ancient 1992 electronic RH Websters Dictionary :-) --- Addition --- I think the definition also somewhat suits the question
5 hrs
  -> Yes, that's a good definition of autocrat,, even today.

agree  Sally van der Graaff: Wow, TonyTK! Is "God" really such a bad word?
9 hrs

agree  langclinic
18 hrs
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15 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5 peer agreement (net): +6
selfish


Explanation:
the simplest answer
one who does not think of others' needs

self-centered

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I do not think autocratic fits here - unless this is about a political ruler who only cares about getting his/her way

autocratic. Roget s II: The New Thesaurus, Third Edition. 1995.
...political power and control: absolute, absolutistic, arbitrary, autarchic, autarchical, autocratical, despotic, dictatorial, monocratic, totalitarian, tyrannic, tyrannical,...

3) autocrat. The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language: Fourth Edition. 2000.
...1. A ruler having unlimited power; a despot. 2. A person with unlimited power or authority: a corporate autocrat. French autocrate, from Greek autokrats, ruling by...


RHELLER
Local time: 17:02
Native speaker of: Native in EnglishEnglish
PRO pts in category: 4

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  Chris Rowson
34 mins
  -> thanks Chris :-)

agree  mportal: I think this is what you mean, although another word for 'spoilt' would be pampered - but that is by others
1 hr
  -> thanks MP! (IMHO pampered sounds too soft)

agree  TonyTK
3 hrs
  -> I know... you need the browniz right? just kidding :-)

neutral  Jörgen Slet: Re: autocrat: a person who behaves in an authoritarian or domineering manner (ancient 1992 electronic RH Websters Dictionary :-) --- Addition --- I think the definition also somewhat suits the question (from a non-native-speaker point of view :-).
5 hrs
  -> I posted the autocrat definition - not sure I see your point

agree  Refugio
6 hrs
  -> thanks Ruth :-)

agree  Sally van der Graaff
9 hrs
  -> thanks Sally!

agree  Asghar Bhatti
12 hrs
  -> thanks Asghar:-)
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19 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5 peer agreement (net): +2
stubborn


Explanation:
Two lines of thought:

1. Stubborn and its synonyms:

STUBBORN, DOGGED, OBSTINATE, and PERSISTENT imply fixity of purpose or condition and resistance to change. STUBBORN and OBSTINATE both imply resistance to advice, entreaty, remonstrance or force; but STUBBORN implies more of an innate quality.
(Random House)

2. spoiled: I think your own suggestion might serve you. This, of course, implies a greater degree of immaturity and irresponsibility.

Best of luck.



    Random House Unabridged Dictionary
Paul Weideman
Local time: 16:02
Native speaker of: Native in EnglishEnglish

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  cologne
3 hrs

neutral  TonyTK: Well, yes, but "stubborn", "dogged" and "persistent" are sometimes admirable qualities.
3 hrs

agree  Jörgen Slet
5 hrs
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46 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 2/5Answerer confidence 2/5 peer agreement (net): +3
hard-headed


Explanation:
well, almost one word....

Jonathan MacKerron
Local time: 01:02
Native speaker of: Native in EnglishEnglish

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  Fuad Yahya: I think this is the colsest one can get to combining the sense of brattish stubborness and single-track self-centeredness in one term.
7 mins

neutral  TonyTK: Yes and no - Cat Stevens is probably still looking for a "hard-headed woman".
3 hrs

neutral  Textklick: Tony: "(Yes. Let's leave G*d [Allah] out of this)"
3 hrs

agree  Jörgen Slet
4 hrs

agree  langclinic
6 hrs

neutral  Sally van der Graaff: Why do we have to leave God out of anything?
8 hrs
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1 hr   confidence: Answerer confidence 5/5 peer agreement (net): +6
bullheaded, headstrong


Explanation:
In addition to Jonathan MacKerron's excellent suggestion, "bullheaded" and "headstrong" come to mind.

Bullheaded is defined as "foolishly or irrationally stubborn."

Headstrong is defined as "determined to have one's own way; stubbornly and often recklessly willful"

Both seem to come pretty close to the desired meaning.

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In view of the other adjective you have used, \"autocratic,\" I would suggest \"bullheaded\" as the other adjective.


    American Heritage Dictionary
Fuad Yahya
Works in field
Native speaker of: Native in ArabicArabic, Native in EnglishEnglish
PRO pts in category: 8

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  TonyTK: "headstrong" isn't bad - but might not be sufficiently negative.
2 hrs
  -> I agree. I hope "bullheaded" is negative enough.

agree  Jörgen Slet
3 hrs

agree  langclinic
5 hrs

agree  mihaelad95
5 hrs

agree  Refugio: or pigheaded
5 hrs

agree  Asghar Bhatti
11 hrs
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1 hr   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5 peer agreement (net): +1
self-opinionated


Explanation:
Ref: Oxford English Dictionary: "1868 J. H. BLUNT Ref. Ch. Eng. I. 538 The young priest was far too self-opinionated to yield to argument."

HTH :-)


Textklick
Local time: 00:02
Native speaker of: Native in EnglishEnglish

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  TonyTK: (But only if it's about winning arguments.) Yet another religious reference. Please see new KudoZ rule 267: "God is dead. Hail eBay."
2 hrs
  -> Is that carved in stein?

neutral  Sally van der Graaff: What rule is that, you say?
7 hrs
  -> Agree. I think TonyTK should send us the URL so we can remain docile, amenable and tractable.
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3 hrs   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5 peer agreement (net): +3
inconsiderate


Explanation:
Not taking other people's opinions into account

Armorel Young
Local time: 00:02
Specializes in field
Native speaker of: Native in EnglishEnglish
PRO pts in category: 12

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  TonyTK: I need the BrowniZ
1 hr

agree  Jörgen Slet
2 hrs

agree  langclinic
15 hrs
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7 hrs   confidence: Answerer confidence 5/5 peer agreement (net): +2
willful


Explanation:
Merriam Webster Dictionary online (see below)
Main Entry: will·ful
Variant(s): or wil·ful /'wil-f&l/
Function: adjective
1 : obstinately and often perversely self-willed

Merriam Webster online thesaurus (See below)
Entry Word: willful
Function: adjective
Text: 1
Synonyms OBSTINATE, headstrong, intractable, mulish, pertinacious, perverse, pigheaded, self-willed, stiff-necked, wrongheaded
Related Word contumacious, factious
Idioms having the bit in one's teeth, not yielding an inch
Contrasted Words amenable, docile, obedient, tractable
Antonyms biddable





    Reference: http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?va=willful
    Reference: http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/thesaurus?book=Thesaurus&va=willf...
Gerard Michael Burns
Paraguay
Local time: 21:02
Native speaker of: Native in EnglishEnglish

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  Sally van der Graaff: This is a very good word that, unfortunately, isn't used much any more.
2 hrs

agree  chica nueva: Ha, just noticed Denyse's reference to 'mankind'. It does look like a religious context...
12 hrs
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1 hr   confidence: Answerer confidence 3/5Answerer confidence 3/5 peer agreement (net): +4
demanding, self-centred


Explanation:
arrogant, inconsiderate: People with that problem are sometimes described this way. It describes how others judge their behaviour/attitude.

'demanding' and 'self-centred' are other possibilities, depending on the situation.

'pushy,manipulative'describe how people go about getting what they want...



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intractable, intransigent

(Heavens, Denyse, have you considered posting the Chinese word in the Chinese/English Kudoz?)

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the Old Testament uses \'stiffnecked\' and \'rebellious\'to describe the Israelites when they didn\'t heed (= take any notice) of God\'s instructions....

Definitely more context needed.

chica nueva
Local time: 21:02
Native speaker of: Native in EnglishEnglish

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  mbc
1 hr

agree  TonyTK: "self-centred", "inconsiderate" - depending on the context, "arrogant" and "manipulative" might be suitable as well
2 hrs

agree  Jörgen Slet
4 hrs

agree  langclinic
17 hrs
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Changes made by editors
Jan 3, 2006 - Changes made by Fuad Yahya:
LevelNon-PRO => PRO
Jan 3, 2006 - Changes made by Fuad Yahya:
FieldOther => Social Sciences
Field (specific)(none) => Psychology


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