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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients? | Balance is everything</title>
			<author>Mario Freitas</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699995#2699995</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 17 Dec 2017 16:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; Mario Freitas&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Post title:&lt;/b&gt; Balance is everything&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;[quote]Chris S wrote:&lt;br /&gt;I&#039;m not sure that formal and friendly are opposites.&lt;br /&gt; [/quote]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A certain level of formality is necessary for professional purposes. If you exceed that level, you sound pedantic and it is quite unpleasant.&lt;br /&gt;A certain level of friendliness is adviseable, but if you exceed that level, you&#039;ll sound &#039;artificial&#039; and it is quite unpleasant.&lt;br /&gt;Balance is everything.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;[Edited at 2017-12-17 16:18 GMT]</description>
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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients? | They are not opposites.</title>
			<author>Dénis Wettmann</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699789#2699789</link>
			<pubDate>Sat, 16 Dec 2017 06:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; Dénis Wettmann&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Post title:&lt;/b&gt; They are not opposites.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;[quote]Chris S wrote:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#039;m not sure that formal and friendly are opposites.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; [/quote]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I concur. Both are the standard in my communication style.</description>
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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients? | In between</title>
			<author>Nina Khmielnitzky</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699662#2699662</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2017 12:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; Nina Khmielnitzky&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Post title:&lt;/b&gt; In between&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;While still being polite, I will follow my client&#039;s lead. Since 99.9999% of my exchanges are made by email, if they address me by my first name, I do so too.&lt;br /&gt;It&#039;s formal but friendly.</description>
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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients? | I voted friendly, but it depends what you mean</title>
			<author>Christine Andersen</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699657#2699657</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2017 12:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; Christine Andersen&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Post title:&lt;/b&gt; I voted friendly, but it depends what you mean&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Straightforward and courteous, without standing on ceremony.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To some extent I try to reflect the client&#039;s approach. If a German opens the mail with &#039;Sehr geehrte Frau Andersen...&#039; my answer is a little more formal than an answer to one of my favourite clients/colleagues who typically writes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hi Christine&lt;br /&gt;Can you translate this file sometime next week?&lt;br /&gt;When and how much?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Regards H&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most of my clients are Scandinavian or from the UK, and they may address me as &#039;Dear Ms Andersen&#039;, but most use my first name, at least when we get past the introductions, and Danes in particular use an informal tone and go straight to the point.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is not quite the style I use with my real friends, but a sort of &#039;business friendly&#039;.&lt;br /&gt;</description>
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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients? | Somewhere in between</title>
			<author>Muriel Vasconcellos (X)</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699653#2699653</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2017 12:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; Muriel Vasconcellos (X)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Post title:&lt;/b&gt; Somewhere in between&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;But formal is often clearer. Attempts to be too friendly can be confusing. My best-paying client, an international organization, is *very* formal. I feel respected, yet I know they won&#039;t take any nonsense.</description>
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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients? | Somewhere in between</title>
			<author>Maria Teresa Borges de Almeida</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699639#2699639</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2017 11:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; Maria Teresa Borges de Almeida&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Post title:&lt;/b&gt; Somewhere in between&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It depends. We tend to be more formal in Portugal than in other countries. I learned some years ago (a public relations course) that the golden rule in communication is reciprocity. So, I treat each message on its own merits and answer accordingly using my common sense...</description>
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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients? | Formal</title>
			<author>Platon Danilov</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699630#2699630</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2017 11:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; Platon Danilov&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Post title:&lt;/b&gt; Formal&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The first contact with a new client is always formal. Later, we may go to somewhere in between or sometimes even to a &quot;friendly&quot; style. But on this stage I can&#039;t call such client a new one.</description>
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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients? | Other</title>
			<author>The Shredder</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699578#2699578</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2017 08:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; The Shredder&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Post title:&lt;/b&gt; Other&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&#039;m not sure that formal and friendly are opposites.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I get the point. I would say formal with direct customers, informal with serious agencies, and unprofessional bordering on the abusive with the spammers and cheapskates I only seem to get through ProZ.&lt;br /&gt;</description>
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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients? | Formal</title>
			<author>Joohee Kim</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699573#2699573</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2017 08:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; Joohee Kim&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Post title:&lt;/b&gt; Formal&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The client is a business partner, not my friend. So I think I should be formal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, it is important for Asian people to be polite. As you know, a lot of Asian languages have honorifics...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;[Edited at 2017-12-15 08:22 GMT]</description>
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			<title>Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?</title>
			<author>ProZ.com Staff</author>
			<category>Poll Discussion</category>
			<link>http://www.proz.com/post/2699569#2699569</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2017 08:10:02 +0000</pubDate>
			<description>&lt;b&gt;Forum:&lt;/b&gt; Poll Discussion&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Topic:&lt;/b&gt; Poll: Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Poster:&lt;/b&gt; ProZ.com Staff&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This forum topic is for the discussion of the poll question &quot;Formal or friendly: which do you most use with new clients?&quot;.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; View the poll results &amp;raquo;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
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