Oct 11, 2011 05:24
12 yrs ago
English term

take in psychologically

English Other Psychology
There was a certain psychological parallel here with the man who had not fired at My Lai, and with Kingman Brewster who had so admirably guided Yale during its time of crisis. People who behave well in highly threatening situations can be more prone to berate themselves—to experience feelings of guilt—than those who behave badly. This is partly because the former (heroes and victims) allow themselves to take in psychologically, and apply their demanding conscience to, the painful realities involved, while the latter (perpetrators and their collaborators) call forth every form of defense mechanism to avoid inwardly experiencing precisely those realities.

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absorb (psychologically)

To take in psychologically means to absorb the experience into the psyche and process it internally, deal with it, and handle it (however effectively); as opposed to the other kind of people who defend themselves against the experience and literally don't let it in, so it doesn't affect them.
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experience and understand psychologically

let the experience in, and not defend yourself against experiencing it
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to come to terms with


To accept the situation, stop blaming externally, and maybe blame oneself.

On the outside, the person accepts the dire realities s/he faces, but internally it hurts and erodes his/her morale, self-worth and self-confidence.

Ref: http://www.dailywritingtips.com/make-peace-with-and-come-to-...
to come to terms with something: to accept an undesired state of things.
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